Cuck Psych

Images and commentary on the psychology of cuckoldry. I'm a 40+ married male and I've always been turned on by the cuckold fantasy, but it's not a realistic option for us. In this blog I'm trying to explore why it turns me on. It's not about the sex, it's about the mind. A blog by DeconstructionOfDesire.
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  • my ex gf turned me into a cuck and I loved it.

Thanks for the submission!

    my ex gf turned me into a cuck and I loved it.

    Thanks for the submission!

    • 21 hours ago
    • 1 notes
  • slavetogirls:

A good way to tell him about your infidelity. Make sure to give graphic details.

    slavetogirls:

    A good way to tell him about your infidelity. Make sure to give graphic details.

    • 21 hours ago
    • 1433 notes
  • slavetogirls:


Blame him for having to cuckold him. It’s all his fault for having to cheat.

    slavetogirls:

    Blame him for having to cuckold him. It’s all his fault for having to cheat.

    (via uninhibitedhubby)

    Source: misbehavedinpa
    • 1 day ago
    • 22 notes
  • cuckmarriage:

New Post has been published on http://cuckoldmarriage.info/2013/05/leadership/Dom LeadershipThe bet: she’d never wear this in public.
Too low cut for a bra, too thin and clinging for panties; this hotwife is, for the first time,  completely naked under the smallest, thinnest dress she’s ever worn in public. It’s so short that you can see her nervously resting her hands on her lap to block unintentional viewing of the little sex her husband shaved smooth only a couple hours ago. Even though their Dom has been working to train her for being on display, this was a big step – too big a step, in fact, for her husband to believe she’d wear it for her boyfriend – which is precisely why their Dom chose it.
You’re looking at the same image their Dom sent their cuckold as proof of winning the bet. How did their Dom swing it? Did he simply coerce her into obliging his wishes? He could, but leading his couple into offering the submission he seeks is a far better course of action than trying to extract it.
Simple Psychology
Psychologically, losing something is easier than simply giving it up. Having lost a bet, the thing to do is man up and honor the terms of the bet, right? So the task for a creative Dom is to craft a bet where all sides are winners regardless of the outcome.
The Stakes
Had she refused to wear such a skimpy dress to such a public function, their Dom agreed to video their previously private couplings at his place (a big win for the husband, but obviously not much of a loss for their Dom), but if she wore it in public and had proof of such, their Dom would have exclusive access to her snug sex for one year. Their Dom knew from teaching his couple more progressive exercises in teasing and denial that they were ripe for this escalation and though she was very anxious about wearing this dress, learning her husband had gambled access to intercourse motivated her far more than simply pleasing their Dom. Knowing she would be skeptical of her husband even agreeing to risk loss of intercourse for a year enabled the Dom to first approach her with stakes of their own. Now you know why she’s now blonde.
Creating Balance
It would be easy to call it good at this point and and simply leave the cuckold to deal with his needful organ on his own and assign that as the lot of a submissive husband, but I would call that irresponsible of both the wife and more importantly, the Dom. It’s then the responsibility of the Dom to ensure the couple learn and practice new methods of physical and emotional intimacy without intercourse. This isn’t done simply to provide the cuckold with sexual release, but to deepen both his submission and bond to his wife and their Dom. When I assign a wife to using something like a Fleshlight on her cuckold and train him to link his pleasure and release with it, I have yet another aspect of denial to explore when I need to modify his behavior.
Creatively fucking a hotwife is simply being a good bull – mind-fucking the couple as a whole, now that’s the leadership of a Dom.

    cuckmarriage:

    New Post has been published on http://cuckoldmarriage.info/2013/05/leadership/

    Dom Leadership

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    The bet: she’d never wear this in public.

    he-wins-the-betToo low cut for a bra, too thin and clinging for panties; this hotwife is, for the first time,  completely naked under the smallest, thinnest dress she’s ever worn in public. It’s so short that you can see her nervously resting her hands on her lap to block unintentional viewing of the little sex her husband shaved smooth only a couple hours ago. Even though their Dom has been working to train her for being on display, this was a big step – too big a step, in fact, for her husband to believe she’d wear it for her boyfriend – which is precisely why their Dom chose it.

    You’re looking at the same image their Dom sent their cuckold as proof of winning the bet. How did their Dom swing it? Did he simply coerce her into obliging his wishes? He could, but leading his couple into offering the submission he seeks is a far better course of action than trying to extract it.

    Simple Psychology

    Psychologically, losing something is easier than simply giving it up. Having lost a bet, the thing to do is man up and honor the terms of the bet, right? So the task for a creative Dom is to craft a bet where all sides are winners regardless of the outcome.

    The Stakes

    Had she refused to wear such a skimpy dress to such a public function, their Dom agreed to video their previously private couplings at his place (a big win for the husband, but obviously not much of a loss for their Dom), but if she wore it in public and had proof of such, their Dom would have exclusive access to her snug sex for one year. Their Dom knew from teaching his couple more progressive exercises in teasing and denial that they were ripe for this escalation and though she was very anxious about wearing this dress, learning her husband had gambled access to intercourse motivated her far more than simply pleasing their Dom. Knowing she would be skeptical of her husband even agreeing to risk loss of intercourse for a year enabled the Dom to first approach her with stakes of their own. Now you know why she’s now blonde.

    Creating Balance

    fleshlightIt would be easy to call it good at this point and and simply leave the cuckold to deal with his needful organ on his own and assign that as the lot of a submissive husband, but I would call that irresponsible of both the wife and more importantly, the Dom. It’s then the responsibility of the Dom to ensure the couple learn and practice new methods of physical and emotional intimacy without intercourse. This isn’t done simply to provide the cuckold with sexual release, but to deepen both his submission and bond to his wife and their Dom. When I assign a wife to using something like a Fleshlight on her cuckold and train him to link his pleasure and release with it, I have yet another aspect of denial to explore when I need to modify his behavior.

    Creatively fucking a hotwife is simply being a good bull – mind-fucking the couple as a whole, now that’s the leadership of a Dom.

    Source: cuckmarriage
    • 2 days ago
    • 70 notes
  • A common cuckold fantasy: his wife uses his affection and love for her to manipulate him into granting his permission for her to take a lover. This is similar to many non-consensual fantasies where the simulation of lack of consent permits the “victim” to act out a humiliation fantasy.

    A common cuckold fantasy: his wife uses his affection and love for her to manipulate him into granting his permission for her to take a lover. This is similar to many non-consensual fantasies where the simulation of lack of consent permits the “victim” to act out a humiliation fantasy.

    (via uninhibitedhubby)

    Source: honeybe1
    • 2 days ago
    • 13 notes
  • Very entertaining caption.

    Very entertaining caption.

    Source: uninhibitedhubby
    • 2 days ago
    • 43 notes
  • An innocent, loving wife, and a simple conversation is how it starts. Of course, reality is a bit (a lot) different.

    An innocent, loving wife, and a simple conversation is how it starts. Of course, reality is a bit (a lot) different.

    Source: uninhibitedhubby
    • 2 days ago
    • 53 notes
  • cuckoldcaps:

    cuckoldcaps:

    (via uninhibitedhubby)

    Source: cuckoldcaps
    • 3 days ago
    • 283 notes
  • Some cuckold marriages like for the wife to advertise. The cuckold may be an enthusiastic participant or prefer being humiliated.

    Some cuckold marriages like for the wife to advertise. The cuckold may be an enthusiastic participant or prefer being humiliated.

    (via uninhibitedhubby)

    Source: heteroflexible007
    • 3 days ago
    • 54 notes
  • hotwendy79:

When your wife feeds you her sweet nectar mixed with another man’s cream, remember to thank her for allowing you to clean her juicy, used hole.  Make sure you do a good job, slurping the sticky cum out of her until you lick up every drop…   use your mouth to make her pussy feel fresh and ready for the next man.
Be her sweet cuckold husband.  Be her cum eating sissy boy.

Some cuckolds are aroused by this scenario due to the humiliation or degradation. Others may have bisexual fantasies that are still unexplored.

    hotwendy79:

    When your wife feeds you her sweet nectar mixed with another man’s cream, remember to thank her for allowing you to clean her juicy, used hole.  Make sure you do a good job, slurping the sticky cum out of her until you lick up every drop…   use your mouth to make her pussy feel fresh and ready for the next man.

    Be her sweet cuckold husband.  Be her cum eating sissy boy.

    Some cuckolds are aroused by this scenario due to the humiliation or degradation. Others may have bisexual fantasies that are still unexplored.

    (via ncsissycuck)

    Source: hotwendy79
    • 3 days ago
    • 61 notes
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